Do I have to maintain friendships with a lot of people? Why not just my friends from school or people with similar interests and focus on life? I feel really guilty about this!
Most of the guys in the groups weren't really taking any action themselves to help themselves move to different levels of friends. They were sad or frustrated because they were waiting for others to come to them.
* I sort of have the opposite problem. It's not that I have junk to hide from others, but I enjoy learning / making things more than going out of my way to check on people all the time / not have fruitful conversations. This will hopefully change over time.